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#7 Strengthen your saftey

In states that don't allow bear or pepper spray, you can carry cheap perfume.

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lol!

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A cop told me to get stinky perfume and that always makes me laugh

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Don't buy into all that tacticool BS for self-defense. Pepper spray, taser, gun, ordered by escalation. Everything else is a waste of money that could get you hurt or killed.

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fair enough. I've got bearspray for hiking anyway

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We are lining up legal documents with a lawyer to protect our family. We have two kids and some unsupportive extended family.

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I appreciate this article, but I'd really appreciate more advice/info for trans men as well. It feels like we are often forgotten about in our own community and our needs and challenges are different than those of trans women.

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You can no longer update gender on documents in Texas. https://guides.sll.texas.gov/name-changes/gender-marker-and-name-change

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Can I share this to a transgender person without them having any of these apps

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yeah, you just need the link

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